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Jumaat, 5 Februari 2016
Khamis, 21 Januari 2016
Ulang Tahun Perkahwinan
Assalamualaikum...
Saya ini sudah lama sgt tidak menulis di blog. Alasan biasa tiada masa terluang. Bila sudah masuk semester baru makanya berlakulah perkara baru. Seperti biasa (emmm..) saya akan dapat subjek baru lagi semester ini. Kiranya setiap semester on off dengan dua subjek ni..so sebagai seorang kakitangan yg baik (maafkan saya jika saya terperasan yer), saya terima aje lah subjek baru tu dgn akur.
Kadang-kala kita ini janganlah emosi sgtkan, bukan susah sgt pun subjek tu..selalunya itulah kata2 hikmah saya dgn pelajar2 ni..tambah saya lagi, pejam mata pun boleh buatkan...yg penting kena selalu buat latihan, yg susah akan jadi mudah, bila mudah pasti terasa senang kan..
Cerita keluarga pula, biasa-biasa shj. Husna masuk tadika umur 5 tahun. Dua minggu pertama ke tadika kemain ceria, kejut bangun tidur sekali aje panggil terus bangun.
Terus bukak baju dan mandi dgn senyum2. Bersemangat!!...
Masuk minggu ke-3 ni, hari Isnin dah bagi alasan sakit perut. Kejut berkali2 tak bangun2 jugak. Sampai saya angkat dia masuk bilik air pun mata masih tertutup rapat. Dlm perjalanan ke tadika tu selalu buat muka sekupang..:(
Hari Selasa bagi alasan sakit tekak pulak, siap batuk2 lagi sampai muntah2 dlm kereta. Sebelum sampai tadika dia ckp nak bawak sosej goreng..mak tuan oiii, mana le mama nak cari sosej goreng pagi2 ni Una...kesian mama dia ni, ikut jln jauh sikit nak tgk kat kedai kuih2 tepi jln tu kut2 ada org jual sosej...
Demi untuk melihat anak ceria ke tadika saya ikutkan shj katanya...sampai situ tak memandang le jawabnya. Org perak kata tak memandang tu maksudnya tiada ok)..
Dah tak de sosej, dia tukar lak nak roti canai..pecut pulak ke satu lagi kedai ni cari roti canai lak...emm, nasib baik ada, lega ler hati mamanya ini..minta tolong jugak abang tu carik2 kan roti canai dia supaya senang nanti Husna nak makan..masuk dlm bekal simpan dlm beg..
Sampai tadika, bila masuk buat muka takut2...tak tahu ler apa kena dgn Husna tu, terlebih manja sgt agaknya..hari Khamis dan Jumaat tu dia demam, mungkin belum sembuh sepenuhnya kut..
Semalam (Rabu) bagi alasan sakit perut plak..mcm2 le alasan dia tu...
Pagi tadi buat perangai lagi, kat dlm kereta muntah sampai habis kena tudung, t-shirt dan seluar pj..balik ke rumah semula utk tukar baju lain...dia kata tak nak pergi tadika, nak ikut mama ke ofis...saya hantar juga dia ke tadika, sampai sana muka sudah pucat, tangan sejuk mcm air batu...dia tarik tgn saya sampai masuk dlm kelas dia kat tingkat atas taska....
Bila cikgu ambik, dia mula meraung kuat2...
Hati kita sbg emak ni sensitive betul, bila anak jerit2 mcm kena sembelih mula ler hati tak keruan dan air mata lak berlinang...
Dlm hati saya selalu berdoa semoga anak kesayangan saya ini selesa belajar di tadika dan gembira belajar di sana...
"YA ALLAH, tenangkan jiwa hambaMu yg lemah ini.., berilah kekuatan untukku menghadapi dugaan ni, perkenanlah harapanku ini...amin"
Hari ini juga ulang tahun perkahwinan kami, suami isteri yg ke -15 tahun. Untuk meraikannya maka malam tadi kami makan Shell Out atas daun pisang di Restoran Nur Kasturi, sebelah Butik Ratu, tepi 7E, lokasi Greentown. Saya ni dah malas nak bergambar2 ni, lagi pun kamera dah rosak masuk air, terterjun dlm kolam renang tuhari...kamera hp pun dah rosak, pun sama2 kami masuk kolam renang..dah sampai masa nak rosak, pasti ada sebab munasabab kan, kena terima dgn redha..
Saya dah mkn Shell Out ni di Mydin dan Restoran Pak Tam, tapi ini yg palingggggg ok...kerang-kerangannya panas iaitu baru dimasak dan terus dihantar kepada pelanggan dan nasi putihnya pun panas...nanti sapa2 yg dtg area Ipoh atau duduk sini, saya cadangkan dtg ler ke Restoran Kasturi ni untuk makan Shell Out..betul2 best, saya tak tipu okey...:)
Ok, kami berdoalah semoga ikatan perkahwinan kami ini sentiasa diberkati oleh ALLAH dan jadilah keluarga kami bahagia, ceria dan aman sentosa selalu..
Ok, itu shj utk kali ini, jumpa lagi..itu pun jika ada kelapangan masa dan waktu yer..:)
Jumaat, 28 Ogos 2015
What your daughters should know by the time they're 10
Active listening
To communicate effectively, listening actively is more important than just speaking randomly. Teach her how to be patient and calm. Try short period of yoga to compose the body and mind, which will help her to keep calm and concentrate.
How money works
Generally, many people think children should be kept away from all kinds of money matters. However, on the contrary, discussing the household budget and expenses will gradually help your daughter understand financial planning for herself.
To defend herself
For every girl, safety is always a concern. She should be able to distinguish between appropriate or inappropriate touch, behavior or action. Make your daughter aware of some basic self-defense moves without scaring her and making her think the world is a bad place to live.
Independence
Your daughter doesn’t need to be spoon-fed all her life. Let her do some household chores and free her from being dependent on you. It will make her confident enough to confront regular issues in her life with ease.
To make healthy food choices
At young age, they don’t know what is best for their body, mind and spirit. Therefore explain to them little things like how carrots are good for their eyes and how milk will keep bones strong. Sooner or later, they will be drawn to healthier food choices.
Self-respect
An aspect of life that every individual should know is to respect yourself. A girl’s self-image is developed at home while watching her father’s behavior toward her mother. A father needs to be a good role model for his daughter for her to realize who she really is.
There is no failure
Being a kid, your princess goes through a learning stage every day and may be disappointed by small failures. Clarify to them how small mistakes are part of everyone’s life by talking about your mistakes and experiences.
To share
Sharing is one of the most important social skills for your daughter to learn. It will help her make friends and develop bonds with people around her. Set an example for her and encourage her to share small things early on like cookies, toys or chocolates.
Responsibility for their actions
According to psychologist Kate Roberts, "Kids this age don't understand that everybody makes mistakes. Blaming somebody is simply their way to avoid disapproval and negative consequences." Therefore, eliminate her fear of consequences and help her build a character people can trust.
To create
Encourage your daughter to use her imagination and problem-solving skills by frequently employing the phrases, "I wonder..." and "Let's see what happens if..."
Time management
It is not just school activities and homework that need to be part of their daily routine. Once you know what interests your daughter, help her to invest more in her hobbies as well. Eventually she will develop the habit to devote time appropriately.
How to communicate
No matter what career she picks in the future, she will benefit from good communication skills. Let her observe how you speak while you call customer service, visit a doctor or talk to a waiter in a restaurant, and she will learn from you.
Discipline
Who could be better than parents to set an example for a girl? Set examples for her with your self-restraint. Also, don't just use punishments to make her disciplined, but also appreciate her best behavior. Reward her for her good work and make rules clear.
To play
Encourage her to play all sorts of sports and not just video games on your tablet. Active play will help her to be more creative, to solve problems and to develop good social skills.
Know their bodies
Women who are objectified in the media can create certain stereotypes in your daughter’s mind about a perfect body. Explain to her how everyone is different and no one can decide for her what is a perfect body. Try to limit her exposure to these kinds of advertisements, shows and movies.
Respect others
It is something she will learn with time and experience. As parents, be careful not to make racist remarks. Also, your daughter's exposure to people of different ethnicities, countries and class will help her develop open mindedness toward others.
To appreciate compliments
She will receive complements all her life, and there is an art to appreciate complements respectfully. Girls deny or ignore compliments from others for several reasons, so teach her to receive complements as gifts and tell her that she deserves them.
They are loved
Let your daughter know she is unconditionally loved and that she can always talk to you. Ask her about her day, make sure she knows about bullying and that she can opt not to be a victim.
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